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15-02-2010, 09:43 PM | #29 | ||
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Ive always felt anger is a by-product of not understanding or accepting something (NOT the only thing to create anger though im sure). This is the case on many levels, an example is the individual who felt it necessary to verbally abuse your wife. Because he could not understand the situation, and it interfered with the way he was conducting his day (he couldve been having a bad day, we dont know), the nominal reaction is barely conscious confusion followed by anger.
IMO, get angry by all means, just dont take it out on somebody. Because the chances are you will wonder why you did later on. Unless youre one of the growing number of those who choose to, essentially, live in their own little world where everything must be done the way that THEY know. And if you dont then you will be subject to their anger, aka; lack of comprehension. The best part of this is, even if theyre subject to something that conflicts with them and it hurts them, they simply do not care either way. As if they just get angry for the sake of it (a habit maybe?). And decking them doesnt get this type of person to wake up either. Kind of like a feel-sorry-for-me-when-I-cop-something-I-deserved child. Of course theres no real broad way of explaining it. As everyone is different. The general consensus is that more and more people are having a shorter straw, however I dont think the reason behind it is so general either. I wont even speculate on that. |
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